Wednesday, August 21, 2019, was our thirtieth wedding anniversary. My husband and I often lose track of how long we’ve been married. Perhaps it’s because we don’t have children, those biological markers of time passing. Our cats are no help since, on average, they age out at eighteen, and they always overlap.
The best reminder we have of our years together is the aches and pains we’ve both accumulated since we married. The morning of our anniversary, my husband greeted me in the kitchen with slight twists and turns of his torso while I microwaved my neck pad. My husband has three separate and distinct problems with his back, the worst of which is spinal stenosis. I have cervical osteoarthritis and lately have been suffering with torn muscles and cartilage in my left shoulder and left knee. The injuries seem to take much longer to heal than they used to.
Without those aches and pains, we could pretend we’re still in our first decade as a married couple with many more decades to look forward to. Instead, we’re hoping for at least another twenty years, thirty if we’re lucky.
So what did these two old farts do to celebrate their anniversary? Well, they went for a bike ride, of course.
We had planned to go to Gainesville, Florida, to bike the Gainesville-Hawthorne Trail. Our furred kids derailed that plan so we settled for the second best thing: the lower fourteen miles of the St. Marks Historic Railroad State Trail. We could have started further up the trail and logged more miles, but the day promised to be hot and we didn’t want to overdo it. Plus, the lower fourteen are the prettiest miles of the trail.
After stopping at the Wakulla River Park to stretch and gaze at the quiet water, we headed back up and made a slight detour for cold water, hot coffee and bagel sandwiches at The Shack. We usually eat as many calories as we burn.
We’ve had a few intense storms come through the past week, leaving a couple of inches of standing water in the low spots of the trail. On a hot day, those bigger than life puddles are most welcomed.
(Oh, yes, that’s my husband at the end, on the ground, trying to collect bugs to photograph.)
All in all, it was a fun day. I love my blue 1981 Peugeot (bike, not car), and I love that biking is one thing I can do that doesn’t hurt my aging joints.
25 responses to “How I Spent My Thirtieth Wedding Anniversary #biking #nature”
What a perfect way to spend 30 years of marriage. Here’s to 30 more, Marie! Thanks for sharing your special day with us…it looks beautiful. ❤
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Thank you, Jill! It was a fun day 😀
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Happy Anniversary!! Looks like a fun way to celebrate!
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Thank you! It was indeed was a lot of fun.
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Good for you guys. Looks like a perfect anniversary
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Thank you, John!
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Happy Anniversary! Looks like a good day to me. A bike ride AND food AND looking for bugs—perfect! We are riding the American Tobacco Trail tomorrow. My bike is only a few months old—I came back to the game late. I enjoy it so much.
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Thanks, Cheryl! I had a ten-speed when I was a teenager but didn’t take up biking again until we moved to Florida. I really enjoy it too 🙂
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Your ‘excellent adventure’ symbolizing more to come in future years together. Congrats on 30 years!
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Thank you, Laura!
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Happy Anniversary!!! Congratulations on thirty years together it really is an achievement and what a fabulous way to celebrate.:-)
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Thank you, Kathy! It was fun 😀
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That looks like fun – happy anniversary!
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Thank you!
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Happy Anniversary to one of the happiest team’s we know!
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Aw, so sweet of you to jump on here and comment ❤️
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Happy anniversary. Sounds like a nice day despite the aches and pains !!
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Thank you, Peter! Somehow your comment went into my spam folder. How rude of WordPress! Glad I checked 🙂 It’s very kind of you to come by and comment.
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Happy 30th anniversary! This looks like it was a wonderful day trip.
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Thank you! It was a lot of fun!
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Happy thirtieth anniversary, Marie. What a great way to spend an anniversary!
I’m glad the health of your furred friends is improving.
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Thank you, L. Marie ❤️ We had fun in part because the kitties are back to normal 🙂
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That sounds really fun. I used to love that feeling of getting on a bike and taking off. Very liberating! Happy anniversary, Marie. So happy you found each other :).
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Thank you, Luanne!
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